Bendy

by carolynholm

Bendy

Dear Mommy,

I’m thinking about bending my gender.

Love, Mia

 

Dear Mia,

Oh dear. You probably don’t even know what that means.

Love, Carolyn

 

Dear Mommy,

I’m bendy. I’m very flexible. I’m a dancer.

Love, Mia

 

Dear Mia,

It’s not about dancing, honey.

Love, Carolyn

 

Dear Mommy,

But it’s about being bendy.

Love, Mia

 

Dear Mia,

Not the way you think. What have you been reading? Did you get into my New Yorkers again?

Love, Carolyn

 

Dear Mommy,

I heard an interview on NPR. A lady lives with someone who is bending the gender. I really think I could do that!

Love, Mia

 

Dear Mia,

It’s about how people identify themselves sexually, honey. As male or female. Or both. Or some of each. Or a lot of each. Or changing from one to another.

Love, Carolyn

 

Dear Mommy,

I didn’t know there were so many options.

Love, Mia

 

Dear Mia,

For some people it’s very fluid.

Love, Carolyn

 

Dear Mommy,

I’d like to try bending mine.

Love, Mia

 

Dear Mia,

Just be yourself. You’re plenty bendy already.

Love, Carolyn

 

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